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fireproof (original poster member #36126) posted at 5:52 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I was misunderstood again 
I feel defeated and I need to stay strong. What comes first staying strong or having your confidence?
I guess I just need to vent so I might actually go to sleep tonight.
This NB is full of surprises and unfortunately the past.
Here's to a few happier days 
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 5:55 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I was misunderstood at work the other day...
It is difficult when all of this is wrapped up together,,, our confidence, being strong, putting our best foot forward each day,,
(((fireproof)))
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
What comes first staying strong or having your confidence?
I could be wrong but I think it varies. Sometimes we are more confident than at other times. At times when we feel such defeat I think we try to stay strong until we get our confidence back. You know... the whole, "fake it till you make it" thing.
I'm sorry things are tough for you lately. Don't be defeated. Pick your awesome self up and keep moving forward! 
(((fireproof)))
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tabitha95 ( member #22033) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I get this. I'm a bit goofy and make jokes a lot of people don't get.
I've had to tell myself that as far as relationships go, I will be myself and that if someone doesn't "get" me, then they're not the person I should be with.
BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).
fireproof (original poster member #36126) posted at 7:16 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Thank you for the positive messages.
Letting out a huge sigh is helpful.
There are over a billion people out there
One foot in front of the other
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