Topic: Abbondad's New Beginning
Member # 37898
| Posted: 4:23 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Good morning, New Beginnings Friends!
I am SO glad I can finally join you :-)
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Posts: 1695 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 37991
| Posted: 4:27 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome, Abbondad! Lots of encouragement and wisdom here, glad you made it!
exWSO, who cares
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
Posts: 120 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
Member # 25341
| Posted: 6:12 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options
Posts: 2716 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 35229
| Posted: 6:20 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Have I mentioned how much I love it that your divorce was finalised on April Fools Day? I love it. Wish it was 2013 alas 2014 is better than 2015.
Welcome, friend. We're a nice bunch here. Mind the threads about pubic hair stylings and BOBs - you strike me as a raging blusher.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5734 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 10552
| Posted: 8:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15449 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 34373
| Posted: 8:15 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1815 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Member # 22870
| Posted: 8:17 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
And welcome to the new life of Abbondad. You'll be fine.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7866 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 15584
| Posted: 8:47 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome!!! I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures as a divorced dad.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4247 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 40540
| Posted: 8:52 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Posts: 99 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT
Member # 20150
| Posted: 8:54 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Dad, so glad you made it to our side. Mind your step.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17794 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 27148
| Posted: 9:05 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 33226
| Posted: 9:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome to NB, AD!
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
Posts: 26506 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 19258
| Posted: 9:46 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
welcome to the next phase
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8554 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 36883
| Posted: 11:56 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
So glad you are here!!! Let the NB's begin!
Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
Posts: 1833 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 11176
| Posted: 1:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
If a thread here says TMI it really means TMI. Open at your own risk.
And welcome. We are fun, but not crazy
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Posts: 6635 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Member # 42934
| Posted: 1:35 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Congrats! Here's to new beginnings
Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
Member # 22722
| Posted: 3:16 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
You will like this forum, it is a place of continued healing and closure, and a fresh look at moving on into your own new future.
BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.
Posts: 1254 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Member # 37468
| Posted: 8:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
I just had this hilarious picture of you going through the plot of Escape by Rupert Holmes, except it's your XWW who shows up at O'Malley's and there's a record scratch and the song stops.
Sorry, I have a twisted imagination. Good luck with your new life!
Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).
Posts: 852 | Registered: Nov 2012
Member # 39847
| Posted: 9:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
BS: Me (30s)
WW: Her (30s)
10 year marriage with 2 small children.
DDay: May 2013
Posts: 55 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: RavenWood
Member # 27539
| Posted: 9:30 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 12
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Posts: 1281 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
|Topic Posts: 27|