Topic: Abbondad's New Beginning
Member # 37898
| Posted: 4:23 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Good morning, New Beginnings Friends!
I am SO glad I can finally join you :-)
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Posts: 1897 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 37991
| Posted: 4:27 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome, Abbondad! Lots of encouragement and wisdom here, glad you made it!
exWSO, who cares
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
Posts: 129 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
Member # 25341
| Posted: 6:12 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 26 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 31
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
*NOT* Ready to die - thank you SI
Posts: 3737 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 35229
| Posted: 6:20 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Have I mentioned how much I love it that your divorce was finalised on April Fools Day? I love it. Wish it was 2013 alas 2014 is better than 2015.
Welcome, friend. We're a nice bunch here. Mind the threads about pubic hair stylings and BOBs - you strike me as a raging blusher.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5945 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 10552
| Posted: 8:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15615 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 34373
| Posted: 8:15 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Member # 22870
| Posted: 8:17 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
And welcome to the new life of Abbondad. You'll be fine.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 8489 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 15584
| Posted: 8:47 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome!!! I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures as a divorced dad.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4431 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 40540
| Posted: 8:52 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Posts: 144 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT
Member # 20150
| Posted: 8:54 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18727 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 27148
| Posted: 9:05 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Why are you going to the hardware store and expecting to buy bread?
Posts: 3333 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 33226
| Posted: 9:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome to NB, AD!
You can call me NIK
This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor
Posts: 32584 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 19258
| Posted: 9:46 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
welcome to the next phase
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 9099 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 36883
| Posted: 11:56 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
So glad you are here!!! Let the NB's begin!
Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
Posts: 2331 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 11176
| Posted: 1:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
If a thread here says TMI it really means TMI. Open at your own risk.
And welcome. We are fun, but not crazy
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Posts: 7047 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Member # 42934
| Posted: 1:35 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Congrats! Here's to new beginnings
Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
Member # 22722
| Posted: 3:16 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
You will like this forum, it is a place of continued healing and closure, and a fresh look at moving on into your own new future.
BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.
Posts: 1604 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Member # 37468
| Posted: 8:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
I just had this hilarious picture of you going through the plot of Escape by Rupert Holmes, except it's your XWW who shows up at O'Malley's and there's a record scratch and the song stops.
Sorry, I have a twisted imagination. Good luck with your new life!
Posts: 881 | Registered: Nov 2012
Member # 39847
| Posted: 9:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
BS: Me (30s)
Status: Divorced Jan 2014.
DDay: May 2013
Posts: 66 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: RavenWood
Member # 27539
| Posted: 9:30 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Me - 43
2 kids, 10 and 13
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Posts: 1380 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
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