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User Topic: Abbondad's New Beginning
Abbondad
♂ 37898
Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 4:23 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good morning, New Beginnings Friends!

I am SO glad I can finally join you :-)

Whew!!!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 2030 | Registered: Dec 2012
seekingright2013
♀ 37991
Member # 37991
Default  Posted: 4:27 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, Abbondad! Lots of encouragement and wisdom here, glad you made it!


BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoooooo!!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 27 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 32
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen

Posts: 4978 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:20 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have I mentioned how much I love it that your divorce was finalised on April Fools Day? I love it. Wish it was 2013 alas 2014 is better than 2015.

Welcome, friend. We're a nice bunch here. Mind the threads about pubic hair stylings and BOBs - you strike me as a raging blusher.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5961 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15708 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
IrishLass518
♀ 34373
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome AD


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!

And welcome to the new life of Abbondad. You'll be fine.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8879 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!!! I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures as a divorced dad.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 8, 10 and 3 weeks


Posts: 4595 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
getnbtr1
♀ 40540
Member # 40540
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

waving hi.

Posts: 147 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SBB!

Dad, so glad you made it to our side. Mind your step.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 19704 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello!!!!


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 3791 | Registered: Jan 2010
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to NB, AD!


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36468 | Registered: Aug 2011
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi AD

welcome to the next phase


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 9296 | Registered: Apr 2008
Undefinabl3
♀ 36883
Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad you are here!!! Let the NB's begin!


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 2388 | Registered: Sep 2012
k94ever
♀ 11176
Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If a thread here says TMI it really means TMI. Open at your own risk.

And welcome. We are fun, but not crazy

k9


BS: 58
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 7271 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
emmybear
♀ 42934
Member # 42934
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Here's to new beginnings



Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
heartbroken_kk
♀ 22722
Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome AD!

You will like this forum, it is a place of continued healing and closure, and a fresh look at moving on into your own new future.


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Divorced 11/20/2015
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1838 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
ProbableIceCream
♂ 37468
Member # 37468
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just had this hilarious picture of you going through the plot of Escape by Rupert Holmes, except it's your XWW who shows up at O'Malley's and there's a record scratch and the song stops.

Sorry, I have a twisted imagination. Good luck with your new life!


Posts: 881 | Registered: Nov 2012
RavenWood
♂ 39847
Member # 39847
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome aboard!


BS: Me (30s)
Status: Divorced Jan 2014.
DDay: May 2013

Posts: 69 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: RavenWood
million pieces
♀ 27539
Member # 27539
Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!!!!


Me - 44
2 kids, 11 and 13
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1482 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
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