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Topic: Abbondad's New Beginning
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Abbondad
♂ 37898
Member # 37898 |  Posted: 4:23 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 |     |
Good morning, New Beginnings Friends!
I am SO glad I can finally join you :-)
Whew!!!
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune
Posts: 1746 | Registered: Dec 2012 |
seekingright2013
♀ 37991
Member # 37991 | | Posted: 4:27 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome, Abbondad! Lots of encouragement and wisdom here, glad you made it!
BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
Posts: 121 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US |
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341 | | Posted: 6:12 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options
Posts: 2904 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 6:20 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Have I mentioned how much I love it that your divorce was finalised on April Fools Day? I love it. Wish it was 2013 alas 2014 is better than 2015.
Welcome, friend. We're a nice bunch here. Mind the threads about pubic hair stylings and BOBs - you strike me as a raging blusher.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5840 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552 | | Posted: 8:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome! 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15505 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl |
IrishLass518
♀ 34373
Member # 34373 | | Posted: 8:15 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome AD 
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1842 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 8:17 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome!
And welcome to the new life of Abbondad. You'll be fine.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7978 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584 | | Posted: 8:47 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome!!! I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures as a divorced dad.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4280 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan |
getnbtr1
♀ 40540
Member # 40540 | | Posted: 8:52 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
waving hi.
Posts: 104 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 8:54 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18091 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 9:05 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Hello!!!!
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2996 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome to NB, AD!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28171 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258 | | Posted: 9:46 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Hi AD
welcome to the next phase
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8710 | Registered: Apr 2008 |
Undefinabl3
♀ 36883
Member # 36883 | | Posted: 11:56 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
So glad you are here!!! Let the NB's begin!
Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
Posts: 1904 | Registered: Sep 2012 |
k94ever
♀ 11176
Member # 11176 | | Posted: 1:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
If a thread here says TMI it really means TMI. Open at your own risk.
And welcome. We are fun, but not crazy
k9
BS: 57
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Posts: 6729 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin |
emmybear
♀ 42934
Member # 42934 | | Posted: 1:35 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Congrats! Here's to new beginnings
Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA |
heartbroken_kk
♀ 22722
Member # 22722 | | Posted: 3:16 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome AD!
You will like this forum, it is a place of continued healing and closure, and a fresh look at moving on into your own new future.
BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.
Posts: 1330 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California |
ProbableIceCream
♂ 37468
Member # 37468 | | Posted: 8:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
I just had this hilarious picture of you going through the plot of Escape by Rupert Holmes, except it's your XWW who shows up at O'Malley's and there's a record scratch and the song stops.
Sorry, I have a twisted imagination. Good luck with your new life!
Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).
Posts: 866 | Registered: Nov 2012 |
RavenWood
♂ 39847
Member # 39847 | | Posted: 9:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome aboard!
BS: Me (30s)
WW: Her (30s)
10 year marriage with 2 small children.
Status: Divorced.
DDay: May 2013
Posts: 55 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: RavenWood |
million pieces
♀ 27539
Member # 27539 | | Posted: 9:30 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014 | |
Welcome!!!!
Me - 43
2 kids, 10 and 12
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
Posts: 1322 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD |
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