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User Topic: Wait up Abbondad!!
ButterflyGirl
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Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been divorced since yesterday!!

I can't get an image to work, but picture Mel Gibson screaming, "FREEEEEDOM!" at the end of Braveheart after being gutted. That's how I feel...

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 2:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday)]


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven

Posts: 2810 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats ButterflyGirl!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 3228 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
karmahappens
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Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3924 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOWHOO!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Caretaker1
♂ 42777
Member # 42777
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When does that feeling come as it is such an emotional roller coaster.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope to join Abbondad and ButterflyGirl as members of the April "first day of the rest of my life" anniversary club soon. My D was to be finalized on 4/16 but got bumped back to 4/18. Hope it doesn't continue to move back...

Congratulations!!


“Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.” - Dave Mustaine
"A unicorn isn't a unicorn. It's a donkey with a plunger stuck to it's face."

Posts: 1873 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
ButterflyGirl
♀ 38377
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost there SoulHurts! I love that we can be a club.

Awesome pic karma happens!

I feel like I should buying a cake right now.

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:47 PM, April 3rd (Thursday)]


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven

Posts: 2810 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
copout
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be joining on the 24!! Congrats everyone!!!


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

Posts: 303 | Registered: Jan 2009
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats BG!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8141 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, ButterflyGirl! Onward and upward!


You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön


Posts: 29455 | Registered: Aug 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!

I love it that so many of you are embarking on this part of your journey at the same time :)


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3788 | Registered: Dec 2011
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sa-weeeet!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3633 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! There's no way I'm joining you in April but maybe by summer!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1396 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!

C'mon, hurry up--party in New Beginnings!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1783 | Registered: Dec 2012
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy for you ButterflyGirl!!! Enjoy FREEEEDOM!!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 16
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2493 | Registered: Oct 2012
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