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User Topic: Wait up Abbondad!!
ButterflyGirl
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Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been divorced since yesterday!!

I can't get an image to work, but picture Mel Gibson screaming, "FREEEEEDOM!" at the end of Braveheart after being gutted. That's how I feel...

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 2:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday)]


xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 8 and 12

Posts: 2953 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats ButterflyGirl!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 21, 20, 17
M: 27 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 32
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen

Posts: 4514 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
karmahappens
♀ 35846
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3993 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOWHOO!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5961 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Caretaker1
♂ 42777
Member # 42777
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When does that feeling come as it is such an emotional roller coaster.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope to join Abbondad and ButterflyGirl as members of the April "first day of the rest of my life" anniversary club soon. My D was to be finalized on 4/16 but got bumped back to 4/18. Hope it doesn't continue to move back...

Congratulations!!


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse

Posts: 2410 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
ButterflyGirl
♀ 38377
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost there SoulHurts! I love that we can be a club.

Awesome pic karma happens!

I feel like I should buying a cake right now.

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:47 PM, April 3rd (Thursday)]


xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 8 and 12

Posts: 2953 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
copout
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be joining on the 24!! Congrats everyone!!!


Now I've been crazy couldn't you tell, I threw stones at the stars but the whole sky fell.

Posts: 338 | Registered: Jan 2009
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats BG!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4957 | Registered: Jan 2012
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8784 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, ButterflyGirl! Onward and upward!


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 35363 | Registered: Aug 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!

I love it that so many of you are embarking on this part of your journey at the same time :)


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3871 | Registered: Dec 2011
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sa-weeeet!


divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3642 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! There's no way I'm joining you in April but maybe by summer!


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Divorced 11/20/2015
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1784 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!

C'mon, hurry up--party in New Beginnings!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1976 | Registered: Dec 2012
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy for you ButterflyGirl!!! Enjoy FREEEEDOM!!


I SURVIVED infidelity. Me 44, DD 20, DS 17
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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