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User Topic: Wait up Abbondad!!
ButterflyGirl
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Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been divorced since yesterday!!

I can't get an image to work, but picture Mel Gibson screaming, "FREEEEEDOM!" at the end of Braveheart after being gutted. That's how I feel...

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 2:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday)]


xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats ButterflyGirl!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen

Posts: 6261 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
karmahappens
♀ 35846
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS!!!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 4012 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOWHOO!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6000 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Caretaker1
♂ 42777
Member # 42777
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When does that feeling come as it is such an emotional roller coaster.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope to join Abbondad and ButterflyGirl as members of the April "first day of the rest of my life" anniversary club soon. My D was to be finalized on 4/16 but got bumped back to 4/18. Hope it doesn't continue to move back...

Congratulations!!


"Character is the ability to follow through on commitments that were made in moments of high resolve – even when we no longer feel like it." Carl Andersen

Posts: 3078 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
ButterflyGirl
♀ 38377
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost there SoulHurts! I love that we can be a club.

Awesome pic karma happens!

I feel like I should buying a cake right now.

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:47 PM, April 3rd (Thursday)]


xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
copout
♀ 22421
Member # 22421
Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be joining on the 24!! Congrats everyone!!!


Your prison is walking through this world all alone.

Posts: 350 | Registered: Jan 2009
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats BG!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9149 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, ButterflyGirl! Onward and upward!


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


Posts: 40180 | Registered: Aug 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!

I love it that so many of you are embarking on this part of your journey at the same time :)


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 4422 | Registered: Dec 2011
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sa-weeeet!


divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

Posts: 3870 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! There's no way I'm joining you in April but maybe by summer!


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

Posts: 2069 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!

C'mon, hurry up--party in New Beginnings!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 2066 | Registered: Dec 2012
dmari
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy for you ButterflyGirl!!! Enjoy FREEEEDOM!!

Posts: 2868 | Registered: Oct 2012
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