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User Topic: Time management
♀ 13937
Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feeling a bit overwhelmed. I don't know where to start. My job; my school; my kids; my mother; two houses...
I can't do this.
Something is going to give way.
How do you determine what your not - negotiable are?

What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.

Posts: 2184 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Not Lothlorien
♀ 34477
Member # 34477
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take a minute to just breathe. Write down all that needs to be done. Then prioritize everything in order of priority. Do what you can and don't be afraid or ashamed to ask for help.

It's important to know that it's okay to not get everything done and you don't have to be perfect. And you don't have to do it all yourself.

This idea is pretty good for visualizing priorities. It doesn't just work for organizing but also for every day life.

Please know you are not alone. I keep getting overwhelmed too but I stop break things done to more manageable sizes.

Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
Exwh married his AP

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.

Posts: 812 | Registered: Jan 2012
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