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rachelc posted 4/4/2014 11:07 AM

Itís either a bad year for him, he has really bad luck or something is making him very absent mindedÖ. He rear ended a school bus this am and totaled his new car. He is ok, no kids on bus.

Many of you know he went running outside in January and broke his leg when he fell on the ice. He has never done anything like this before. And Iíve had to tell him the same thing several timesÖ Iím sure heíll make some sort of connection. I donít need or want to do that for him. Or, he has a medical condition. I'm worried about him.

Whatever your truth is, you canít outrun it. It parks itself in your brain until it comes out a different way. Believe me, Iíve tried. If he doesnít think he can get over this, doesnít want to be married to me, has more to tell me, whatever, I hope he deals with it for his own sake.

or, I'm totally over-thinking all this.

karmahappens posted 4/4/2014 12:53 PM

I bet he is completely absent minded....I know I went through a very long period of time in a foggy state lol.

Whatever your truth is, you canít outrun it.

But this ^^ is true no matter what. If you do not face your truth your truth will eventually face you.

(((hugs))) Rachel. I am glad nobody was hurt.

brokensmile322 posted 4/4/2014 13:12 PM

((Rachelc)) I am so sorry you are hurting right now. I hear the struggle you have going on. I pray you can find peace soon. Keep hanging on.

Glad you hubby is ok.

tushnurse posted 4/4/2014 14:24 PM

So glad he is ok. That stinks that he totaled his new vehicle.

I get what you are saying, I really do. But you know you can't make him do anything he doesn't want or isn't ready to. He may be having a lot of internal struggle and conflict right now, thus the absentmindedness.

I would take him to the Dr though, just to be sure. Things like swings in Testosterone (not that I am on the low T bandwagon) or thyroid can cause you to be a bit foggy.

rachelc posted 4/4/2014 14:46 PM

But you know you can't make him do anything he doesn't want or isn't ready to.

oh yes. I do know this.

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