Soooo, I think I'm going to start putting myself back out there. I DO NOT want anything serious, but I could definitely use some damn intimacy.
That, and it'd be nice to feel wanted. I'm pretty much indefferent toward WH. The anger I do get only has to do with the games he plays using our children; in regards to his cheating and lying, I am over it. I have "known" it was going on for the past 13 years, so if anything I'm relieved that it's no longer behind my back anymore. I honestly pity the poor women he lures.
I was reading that you should wait 2 years after a D is final to start dating, ummmmmm NO. I am definitely NOT waiting 2 years to get laid. Haha. I know that number would probably be a good amount of time for some people, it depends on the damage done and that everyone heals differently and at different paces. I understand that you should wait until the angst and anger is done, but I don't feel angry at what he's done, I'm relieved that it's not happening to me anymore. I want to find out who I am, try new things, enjoy life. If I find love along the way then I won't shun it; but for now, I think I'll focus on my children, myself, my career, and some casual dates here and there:)