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User Topic: A sign??
♀ 25204
Member # 25204
Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today I began this process.. I mailed in my retainer and signed paperwork!! Instead of doing it first thing today, I kept doing other things, feeling anxious all day. By about 3 o'clock, I got it all ready. About 5 minutes after I sealed the envelope to get the paperwork on its way, I was notified I had won a small raffle where I work. I won an Alex and Ani bracelet! I was so excited as I never win anything. When I picked it up, the saying on the bracelet could not have been more perfect. It was "Live a Happy Life", with words of "courage, appreciation and choice". I want to think that it may have been a small sign that I have made the right choice. It was a nice way to begin my weekend!!

Me: BW. 40's
Him: WH POS. 40's
2 kids. DD16, DS14

Don't let my user name fool you...I am NOT hopeful for us at ALL!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: New York
♀ 38865
Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a wonderful start! I believe that if we keep ourselves open to the blessings we invite them in.

Keep focused on the positives, you will get through this.

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

Posts: 759 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
♀ 37215
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is one BIG, CLEAR and beautiful sign!!

Posts: 2868 | Registered: Oct 2012
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love signs. I always feel like it's a little nod from the universe that I'm on the right path.

Awesome surprise for you!

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5589 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 6850
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Happy  Posted: 9:56 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on winning your bracelet! Wear it and take the words to heart in the coming days when things may get tough to deal with. HUGS

You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4877 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
♀ 42691
Member # 42691
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on winning the raffle. Fun, huh? I know I would definitely consider that a SIGN! How perfect were the sayings?!
I think you should wear it through this difficult time& look at it when you need encouragement.
Big hugs.

Unremorseful WH-48
M 26+ years
DS 26, DD 23
H moved out 10/3/12
IN House S, H lost job 2/7/14→now
Dday 1- 3/2002 short EA/PA w-COW
Dday 2- 2/12/14→LTA, H STILL seeing "Bi"MfCOW (OW now S too)!

Posts: 121 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CA
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