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Im posting on my phone so sorry for any typos. Stbx was always good about $. Last week, my dd sfarted harping on how he had to pay So much (she chose to move out w/ her bf, but I still pay for all her stuff, hair,clothes etc and just bought her another car)....goes on forever. Anyway, stbx owed me $600 this week. paid $200 and wont answer phone/text. what should I do? also, be has been giving my dd (19 yr old) cs checks to bring to me and I think this is inappropriate. I dont want her involved in this. Am I too sensitive(

Your DD should not be used as a courier for checks. But because she is fully involved in this, she feels she has the right to offer up her opinion on your spending habits. You need to shut that shit down tonight. Tonight.

As for the actual money? I don't know what to tell you. Is he in town? Do you have a court order regarding this money?

NG, I have a very concrete separation agreement in place. He is in a nearby town. I have legal representation. He currently does not.
I DO NOT want my dd involved, but what are some ideas to stop this? I just bought her a new car w/ the understanding she was returning to college. Wh gave her a fluff job in his business instead and she is jow pregnant and thinks life is just great.