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Topic: It will be okay
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norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 |  Posted: 10:46 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014 |     |
Tonight I was crying in the locker room after my workout. I don't know why--I was just down all day. Tired but not from a lack of sleep. Struggling with sadness. When I exercise, those feelings get even stronger--my resistance to the feelings melts away with my workout.
Normally I go into a bathroom stall and sit on the toilet to bawl. Today I was just frozen in place, sobbing and sweaty. It's not a very busy locker room.
I looked up to see a woman had approached me. She put a generous pile of tissue in front of me.
"Whatever it is," she said, "it's going to be okay."
She had her own issues. Her own life. And she took a moment to be kind and encouraging to me when I needed to hear exactly that.
So tonight I'm telling you, too: It is going to be okay.
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
lastdance
♀ 42401
Member # 42401 | | Posted: 11:06 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014 | |
((((((((((((( HUGS))))))))))))
yes it will be ok.........it will be ok
Posts: 369 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: orlando, fl |
mainlyinpain
♀ 39134
Member # 39134 | | Posted: 11:55 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((norabird)))
I'm glad someone was there for you with a kind word, as you are always here for us.
Posts: 602 | Registered: Apr 2013 |
StillStanding1
♀ 40144
Member # 40144 | | Posted: 12:53 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014 | |
^^^^Ditto, Norabird!!! So glad every time I hear of someone acting with unexpected compassion. That's awesome.
Sorry those sad moments can be overwhelming. And she was right -- it IS going to be okay.
Take care, Norabird.
Me: 49 BS, Him: 51 WH
M 23 yrs - DD21 DS19 DS16
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, S for 1 year, now Reconciling
Posts: 1465 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest |
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012 | | Posted: 11:08 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014 | |
(((norabird))) Yes. It will most definitely be ok. Thank you for sharing that story. It's nice to know that there is still some benevolence out there.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Posts: 4471 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US |
LeftOutintheCold
♀ 42856
Member # 42856 | | Posted: 11:14 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Thank you for sharing this. Things WILL be okay. ((hugs))
Me - 43
WH - 41
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Divorce from the ass is in progress!
You can see more of my story on my blog here: http://thatcraftylunchlady.com/?p=833
"Never give up hope and let time heal you"
Posts: 340 | Registered: Mar 2014 |
justinpaintoday
♂ 42858
Member # 42858 | | Posted: 11:21 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014 | |
I am blessed at the kindness of strangers. People do shitty things but many do beautiful things as well. Wow
I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.
Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014 |
OK now
♀ 14459
Member # 14459 | | Posted: 11:28 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014 | |
As mainlyinpain said you give a lot to the SI community with your helpful advice, even with all your own distress to deal with.
((((((More hugs))))))
Posts: 2062 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC |
iamsoblind42
♀ 42022
Member # 42022 | | Posted: 11:33 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014 | |
I was in Church last Sunday and the sermon was about "A True Friend". I bawled the whole time. I have only been to that church 3 times and a lady came up to me with tissue and gave me card with her name and number after that said call me anytime.
The random acts from a stranger during times like this is so powerful.
norabird, I have lost it at the gym as well. I do think working out helps get a lot of emotion to the surface. Wish you lived closer. I'd go work out with you! {{{Hugs}}}
I'm a survivor, I'm gonna make it, I will survive, keep on surviving...
BS: me 44 (then 42)
WH: 50 (then 48)
2 kids
Married 18 years
D-day - 1/11/14
Filed - 1/16/14
Divorced 4/21/14
Walked in on WH and BF while her H watched
Posts: 237 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Colorado |
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