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Just met a friend of OW who yes was one of my friends. This lady sang nothing but praises about her. Oh how I wanted to tell her the truth. Wonder if the conversation comes up if she will confess the truth about what she did or lie like she does about everything thing else. Time will tell!

And why didn't you tell her?

yeah...why didn't you tell her??? I certainly would have!

I didn't say anything because she is not worth the effort and I'm tired. She is psycho and karma will find her. She lives in a web of lies and a very false reality. She has to try to be friends with everyone. Her self esteem is very very low. You should see the way she dresses. Very right pants, revealing cleavage...besides, who would they believe a person they just met? Or their "wonderful so sweet friend"!!!!

My point of saying what I said was because she claims to be this Christian person now. So if she is confronted will she say the truth like a Christian or more lies for her to live with.

Many OWs don't even think they're lying because they've chosen to believe a convoluted version of their own affair truth. They're sleeping with a married man? Well, that's only because his marriage is all but over. Barf. They're violating one of the ten commandments? Well, that's only because they make their affair partner so very, very happy and isn't that what God wants? Seriously, these people are deluded. How the hell they can claim to be a good Christian (and many of them plaster that all over the Facebook) and be part of an affair?

You're right--the friend wouldn't have believed you.

Watchingout - it sounds like you're dealing with the very same OW that I am!!! What is it with these creatures??? On the other hand, for me, I'm hoping beyond hope that I run into one of her "dear friends" so that I can blab. I have proof on my phone to back it up... Otherwise, I wouldn't bother.

Overall though, I'm much like you where I'm too tired to deal and the OW isn't worth the energy.
Besides, she thrives on drama and being the center of attention. Why should we waste our precious energy on that and give them what they want?? They'll get what's coming to them. Sooner or later.