she wasnt better than yoou, she was just available. im sorry you had to see what you did. how awful! dont pay much mind to what he says right now. watch and see what he does. words mean nothing.
take care of yourself
The truth is, they are, they are two things that we are not. But it is not what we think about, it is what we don't understand.
The OM or OW is available to do what they did, and is willing to do it, that is it, nothing more.
Your spouse was the same and all that happened was that two of those people ran into each other, both who fit that bill of qualifications, and you have an affair.
It may be hard to understand, nearly impossible to believe, but that is all there is to it.
This is so true. Please do not compare yourself to OW-- it is not even a comparison! She has no morals! Opportunity presented itself....
You can't rationalize irrational behavior.