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Topic: Triggering

littleflower
♀ 42673
Member # 42673

Posted: 8:46 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014

Wow
I have been feeling off all day

Just worked out its because it's my 2 year olds birthday tomorrow and the OW was the mid wife for him too !

DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW - what a cow
3 kids under 4

Posts: 101 | Registered: Mar 2014

shygirl07
♀ 42972
Member # 42972

Posted: 9:02 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014

littleflower,
WOW I can imagine how you feel. I don't have kids but I am sure they bring you a lot of joy. This woman sounds like total garbage and scum. I hope she enjoys the fact she broke up a family . Piece of crap under your shoe she is . Its okay though, what goes around will come around. Remember you have a good heart and she doesn't , that's priceless. I hope you enjoy your 2 year olds birthday :)

me:27
him:30
7 years together
no children

OW was his ex he always convinced was his friend .. moved in her and knocked her up , got together behind my back

Ddays : many in 2009 and 2010
final dday : Sept 2012 after being broken up 3 w

Posts: 73 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: CA

littleflower
♀ 42673
Member # 42673

Posted: 9:06 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014

At least his party his next weekend , I really would not have been able to cope with it today.
I really wasn't expecting to trigger like this until June which is when the A started

DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW - what a cow
3 kids under 4

Posts: 101 | Registered: Mar 2014

toughernow
♀ 40915
Member # 40915

Posted: 9:09 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014

((((((littleflower)))))))

You have every right to feel whatever you are feeling.

I can't imagine what it would be like to have to share (in this twisted, sick way) the most precious and sacred moment of my life as women with this women who helped my H betray me.

Look into the face of that beautiful child and know in your heart that you are a Queen. She is absolutely nothing.

BS (Me) - 47
WS(Him) -48

Married 23 years - together for 29 years

DDay - June 10th 2012 then TT'd-June 2012 - July 2012 (and beyond????)
2 amazing children

"Understanding love is one of the hardest things in life." - Fred Rogers

Posts: 103 | Registered: Oct 2013

littleflower
♀ 42673
Member # 42673

Posted: 9:59 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014

Mainly I want to ring the XBFF and tell her what a ho bag she is - and other things

Blah !

DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW - what a cow
3 kids under 4

Posts: 101 | Registered: Mar 2014

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