There's a rumor at work that my group may get consolidated to one of two other possible locations. One of them I wouldn't mind going to. The other one is a wash. Both are far enough away that DD would have to fly to do visits between parents. The move would occur very late this year if it happened.
It's just a rumor, so it may be nothing. I'll probably have more information later this week.
I opened a dialogue with XWW at the suggestion of my manager, telling her that this was possible and that we should come up with a contingency for the case where I move with respect to parenting plan. I noted that DD would have to stay in one place most of the school year to attend school. Of course XWW would "prefer" that DD stay in her current location "at first." Like hell. I've been equal or primary caretaker since DD started Kindergarten in late 2011, and it's not an accident that I've been that way. I'm going to start recording her location again, just in case.
XWW has been very averse to talking to a lawyer in the past, and she has no money to speak of and there are no marital assets she could tap into because the divorce is done, so if it turned into a fight I'd have vastly more resources. I may do a quick legal consult later this week to see if there's anything I need to start doing.
I will also try to figure out what's genuinely best for DD. I do NOT think that XWW would be a good primary caretaker. She is nuts. I'm slightly nervous about her having DD for 24 hours at a time, long term, to be honest.