This morning WH and I met with our attorneys and facilitator to sign agreements for our collaborative divorce. WH show thinly veiled contempt and anger for my attorney, and the facilitator, even squabbling about who was paying for all of this. Duh! He is the one who is employed. I suspect he didn't even tell his own attorney about his affair with his coworker. She seemed to think, at first, that he was a fine example of openness, and tried to defend him for not disclosing assets. I think she might believe otherwise, now. I watched the facilitator (therapist) react to WH responses, and he was surprised. You would think that this meeting would be a godsend for a man who had found his true love after 33 years of being married to a substitute, me. Yet, he was angry, and defensive at the meeting. Could he be feeling some shame?
I gave up so much for him, and he gave me up for nothing.