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devotedfool68 posted 4/8/2014 13:35 PM

So WW and I were watching the movie "About Time" the other day.
In a nutshell it about a man who can go to any time in his life and re-do or change what he did. I know, not real, B.S. movie stuff.

I was actually quite bored with it until the lead characters father passed away. I became over whelmed with all of the possibilities of being able to correct ALL of the things that I did wrong over the years.
Then I found myself wondering if WW was thinking the same, when it occurred to me that she likely would not change what she chose to do that night or for the year after....................SO DEPRESSED

Morhurt posted 4/8/2014 13:45 PM

What makes you think she wouldn't change that night? Is she remorseful, are you in R? If she has positive memories of her A, that myst be very hard for you. I'm sorry if I'm misreading what you meant.
In any case, you've been heard. I can still barely watch movies at all due to triggers. Even kids movies trigger me.

devotedfool68 posted 4/8/2014 14:14 PM

WW says that she regrets / is remorseful......
I keep thinking that it should look diferent than this?????

Morhurt posted 4/8/2014 15:49 PM

What do her actions say?