For a while, I did feel like I was his second choice. I felt like he was "stuck" with me since we were married.
It's only been in the last couple of months since I came to realize that I'm a kick a** choice. He'd be an idiot not to do everything in his power to be with me.
Don't get me wrong. I'm no size 2 teenie bopper super model by a long shot. I have some meat on my bones and some age under my belt, but I'm no dog. I'm a good person. I worked hard and did well for myself financially. I am not a reckless spender. I am faithful and loyal. My house isn't spotless, but I do keep a clean home.
I have a lot to offer a relationship. I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, but I do not have to be perfect to have value.
WH made a huge mistake when he forgot my worth. I made a bigger one by forgetting it for a little while too. It's taken me a lot of IC to help me remember how much I bring to the table and that he is lucky to have me.