This Topic is Archived
morethantrying (original poster member #40547) posted at 3:02 AM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014
Thoughts on the EFFORT and trying to have confidence in myself that I will heal
...trying to have trust nmyself that forgiving is good for ME and that I will do it...I may have to revisit it over and over but I will get there...this is a place I WANT to be...this is most true to who I am
...Giving myself a break that I AM doing the best that I can
...Giving myself a break that every time I TRY to move on,love, forgive, just by this trying I AM being true to who I am and what I believe
....who said living your own values was going to be easy?
Its in the effort that I show that I am being true to who I am ... the effort is worth it for ME
[This message edited by morethantrying at 9:02 PM, April 8th (Tuesday)]
Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 57
Him: WS 64
Married 34 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...
FixYou71 ( member #42654) posted at 4:05 AM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014
I agree. Nice to kind of lay that out there as something to look at and focus on. Good for you! I pray you get there.
BS:44
H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993
This Topic is Archived
