Attention for sure. It's a look at me and him and what we do on our time with our kids. I smile through it and say, that's great you girls did XYZ with mommy and her friend. She's brash and so is he as they go around town as soon to be husband and wife. Disney Dad sees his one kid on weekends and has no responsibility for daily life of parenting She has no responsibility for paying her debts, or bills and running a home, nor has the humbleness to see the impacts to all.
However, it will work out for these two. Water seeks it's own level. They both love Facebook and have 400 friends don't you know?
8 months in to her relationship she was letting me know she wants to get engaged. Great I said when you do, I'll meet the paramour. Just be a good step dad when you do see them, I say. Her and her family are out for blood and are bullies. Won't fade away gracefully.....I for one stand up to bullies. If I lose in court, I will look back and say I tried. They will gloat and say they won.
I'm worth more. It doesn't take away the pain and frustration of being part of this foolery. Her family also started the process of blending the families months after our separation and pending divorce. He is part of their family celebrations now. Girls are now in therapy as am I to understand my role in this and not letting this happen again. It is by far the most toxic thing I have experienced.
I'm surviving this. It just is draining both emotionally for loss of family and financially.
[This message edited by Caretaker1 at 6:32 AM, April 9th (Wednesday)]