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Smashedat58 posted 4/8/2014 21:37 PM

Monday we met with attorneys and facilitator for signing of agreement to collaborate on separation/divorce settlement. Tonight, the STBXH asked if he could come over next week for our daughter's birthday party. I am shocked that he he would even ask. What an insensitive bastard, he is. To think that his family he has hurt by his selfishness, would want him to be with us at a party. Tonight he is emailing me old photos of our children and me. I hope he feels lonely, drinks himself into a stupor, and sleeps in his vomit. I would love to have a photo of that to frame and hang in my bedroom.

SBB posted 4/8/2014 21:53 PM

I hope he feels lonely, drinks himself into a stupor, and sleeps in his vomit.

That's the spirit! No photo though - not even a dartboard. Who'd want his manky mug messing up your environment?

Almost all of them try to take this walk down memory lane (aka Gaslight Lane). Nostalgia about a time before they had consequences for their actions. Diddums.

In all of the photos I have of my girls during that M I remember how awfully I was treated and how much he was deceiving me during that time. Well before I stopped pretending not to notice - well before I knew why. He took most of the (rare) photos of me and my girls and I remember begging him each time and how mean he was about it. Arsehole.

It is a family party - you are not my family so you're not invited. Look up the word Divorce in the dictionary - it's right there in between Cheating and Syphilis.

Thinkingtoomuch posted 4/8/2014 22:06 PM


I feel he might have an agenda as a reason for wanting to come night of the birthday party. Just makes me wonder. After the agreement signing...Hmmm.

Tonight he is emailing me old photos of our children and me.

Sounds suspiciously manipulative.


Therefore keep this attitude:

I hope he feels lonely, drinks himself into a stupor, and sleeps in his vomit. I would love to have a photo of that to frame and hang in my bedroom

norabird posted 4/8/2014 23:32 PM

Honey, the man sleeps in his vomit every night--he's sleeping on his face, right?

Nature_Girl posted 4/9/2014 01:14 AM

RedWheelBarrow posted 4/9/2014 01:45 AM

It means he's messing with your mind. Because he feels entitled, dontcha know. I have one of these peculiar STBX pests as well.

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