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Divorce/Separation :
Not going to do anything....

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 NikkiD (original poster member #38173) posted at 6:58 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

I care, but I’m not going to do anything about it. I love him, but again, not going to do anything about it. AND it feels good to not do anything. I’m married on paper, but I am going to enjoy being single. Being single does not mean I’m alone though. I rather enjoy the company of myself. I’m pretty awesome.

"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 7:58 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

Awesome Nikki! I'm going to try to borrow some of this attitude for myself

Sit. Feast on your life.

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Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 9:43 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

Love it Girl!

Enjoy it and have a blast. The most fun I had was being alone in my apartment when we were separated on the weekends and just watching and cooking what I wanted. I was not ever truly lonely.

And every Sat if he was not with me (False R) he would call "Can I come over for coffee".

BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

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BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 10:52 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

wtg!

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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