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Topic: He wants my Apple ID login? Advice please
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nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 |  Posted: 2:24 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 |     |
WH says some of the apps on his phone are tied into my Apple ID and he needs my password.
Does this seem strange to anyone else? Last time I checked you could only sync to one appleID.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1839 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961 | | Posted: 2:27 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I have my phone and my ipad linked to the same apple ID. I wouldn't give him my ID. Ask him what it is he wants from the ID. Unfortunately, I don't believe he can transfer them to a new one...he will have to get is own ID and buy them again. That's a consequence of his actions. I mean, most apps are free or fairly cheap. It's not like it will cost him a ton.
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Posts: 5739 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada |
brokenblackbird
♀ 29541
Member # 29541 | | Posted: 2:40 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
He needs to get his own Apple ID.
Posts: 875 | Registered: Sep 2010 |
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 | | Posted: 3:00 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
He already has his own Apple ID which his stuff is already synced with.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1839 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
justabrokendream
♀ 3075
Member # 3075 | | Posted: 3:05 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
My advice - tell him to go f himself.....
Posts: 323 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: CA |
Leia
♀ 42510
Member # 42510 | | Posted: 3:07 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
What I had to do was do a master reset on my iphone. There are instructions on how to do this. DO NOT give him your Apple ID and password! He can reset and redownload under his own name. It is pretty easy.
"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars
Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 3:08 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Don't give it to him.
He's simply going to have to uninstall the apps linked to your account, buy them under his own ID, then reinstall.
Likewise if you purchased any under his Apple ID.
Me - 42
DD(21), DS(19, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids - 3 dogs, 2 cats
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - F that guy.
XWH#1 (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs
I edit often for typos/clarity.
Posts: 6989 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California |
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 | | Posted: 3:08 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I'm wondering if he's trying to remotely install spyware on my phone...
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1839 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
Faithful w/Love
♀ 33128
Member # 33128 | | Posted: 3:22 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Would he be willing to give you his ID and password? I think NOT! DO not give him jack shit! Let him go to the store or call and they can help his tardass!
BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Posts: 2890 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Softcentre
39166
Member # 39166 | | Posted: 3:25 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Probably...or look at your chats etc. No reason for him to have it. Stay strong.
Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - Unremorseful passive aggressive blameshifter. Many EA's & at least 1 PA. Dday Aug 2012. Walked out April 2013. Demanded D, now stalling
ds5, ds7
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him
Posts: 1235 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK |
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 | | Posted: 3:27 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Do not give it to him, he doesn't need it.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 917 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
BrokenDaisy
♀ 37063
Member # 37063 | | Posted: 3:29 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
He can also track you or erase all your phone data with the FindMe app if he has your details. I wouldn't give it to him. No way.
Me BxW, him SA NPD WxH
1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!
Posts: 280 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 3:30 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
My advice - tell him to go f himself.....
Exactly what I would advise, word for word.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10464 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
Rainbows
♀ 39362
Member # 39362 | | Posted: 3:44 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I had this issue with the ex, where I originally downloaded apps under his id to my phone.
He didn't give me his login credentials, but it gave me the option to put them under my id.
He can move them under his own id and doesn't need keys to the castle.
There is always a rainbow after every storm.
Posts: 415 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 3:48 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
t/j
it gave me the option to put them under my id.
How do you do this?
My DS18 has his own apple ID now, but has a bunch of things he bought while a minor under my ID.
It'd be good to transfer them without having to repurchase.
Me - 42
DD(21), DS(19, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids - 3 dogs, 2 cats
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - F that guy.
XWH#1 (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs
I edit often for typos/clarity.
Posts: 6989 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California |
Tearsoflove
♀ 8271
Member # 8271 | | Posted: 4:37 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Even if he has to repurchase every app on his phone, do not give him your apple ID information. He could want to install spyware so it's there when you sync. He could also want to access your icloud. He might just want to charge up a bunch of crap and blame you. There is no good reason for him to have your information if you are not reconciling.
"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson
Posts: 4380 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 4:40 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
As others have said, no. He can get the aps on his own account without a problem.
I'd also change the password NOW to something he could never come up with. Chances are when you say no he'll try everything under the sun to figure it out.
Make it something like sitoldmeno! (SI told me no!).
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!
Posts: 21163 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back |
Lilypad
♀ 36399
Member # 36399 | | Posted: 4:42 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Nekorb are you in Canada? Do you have your own carrier account for your phone? No don't give him your apple ID whatever you do. He is feeding you a load of crap.
I work for a cell phone company and he doesn't need this.
“You can make mistakes, but you are not a failure until you blame others for those mistakes.” -John Wooden
Posts: 121 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Canada |
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 | | Posted: 4:58 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Thanks everyone.
My response for right now is going to be crickets.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1839 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
thenon-goddess
♀ 31229
Member # 31229 | | Posted: 5:24 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
You can't have aps from two apple id's on a phone, so if he's telling you "some of his aps" he's lying. Glad to hear you're going crickets. I'd also be tempted to change my ID to something really obscure (if its not already) so that he can't guess his way in.
Status: divorcing - I can see the light at the end of the tunnel!
Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2011 |
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