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Divorce/Separation :
Another reward

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 renee21 (original poster member #27088) posted at 2:50 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

I've been looking for another job, I'm on notice with my current employer, will have a severance package. I had the perfect job lined up, enough of an increase where I could make it 100% on my own without worrying about fucktard paying support.

They loved me, were going to hire me and got the call today, no dice because of my credit. I bet you can guess where my credit issues came from. Just another reward I get for being his wife and trusting him to do the right thing. I don't want to rely on him for shit, he already made me late on rent this month because he didn't have the support money. I will never trust my finances combined with someone else again.

I'm so depressed.

BW(me) 36
WH-36 SA
Three kids 18, 16 and 9
Married 18 years.
Multiple D-Days, multiple OW and an OC
12/19/03,5/13/2004,12/5/2009, 2/20/2014
I am no longer a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.

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justinpaintoday ( member #42858) posted at 2:54 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

I am so sorry

I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

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kiki1 ( member #37184) posted at 3:00 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

(((Renee21)))

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:18 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

(((renee)))

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Sadmumma ( member #42192) posted at 3:20 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

((renee))

On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:32 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

((((renee)))) Do they know that your credit was impacted by divorce? I'm so sorry, honey.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Leia ( member #42510) posted at 3:47 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is to find a job. Do you have D paperwork you can show them? Again, that really sucks.

"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 5:42 AM on Thursday, April 10th, 2014

They won't consider the circumstances?

My god that sucks. We don't have the credit issue here thank god.

I'm so sorry.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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