I've been looking for another job, I'm on notice with my current employer, will have a severance package. I had the perfect job lined up, enough of an increase where I could make it 100% on my own without worrying about fucktard paying support.
They loved me, were going to hire me and got the call today, no dice because of my credit. I bet you can guess where my credit issues came from. Just another reward I get for being his wife and trusting him to do the right thing. I don't want to rely on him for shit, he already made me late on rent this month because he didn't have the support money. I will never trust my finances combined with someone else again.
I'm so depressed.