What are you pretending not to know?
Wow, you all, thanks.
I must confess I did let the kids call him from my phone (I don't have a landline) but didn't talk to him.
I honestly thought this was going to be the easy part.
Guess, I'm my own worst enemy.
Ya'll gave me a lot of good ideas.
He is in the midst of a meltdown because I'm not doing what he wants, when he wants it, how he wants it etc.
You know, he actually believed that when he moved out of state to take on a new position my kids and I would follow? Like we are supposed to uproot our lives to conform to his new version of reality And MOVE to FOLLOW HIM?????
Oh we'd still be divorced, just divorced in another state away from any and all support for ME from my friends and family here.
Because that's what HE needs in order to be physically close to the kiddos.
That would be the same kids he neglected in favor of latest OW's brats several times.
Ummmm no. Nope, negative, not in this lifetime.
He REALLY didn't like hearing that.
The ONLY reason I hadn't filed paperwork is on the advice of my L I was waiting for his income to double. Doesn't look like that's going to happen and now we have to maintain two separate households with less money.
Fortunately I am related to my current landlord so he is cutting kids and me some SERIOUS slack in the housing department.
I am giving him 12 weeks to get it together and I'm filing even with the reduction in income. The good news for me is that since he left and is currently employed something like 12 sates away, and the kids' lives are here I don't think I need to worry about custody battles.
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.