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justasinger posted 4/11/2014 07:57 AM

I would really like to thank everyone here at SI. Just reading through some of these threads I see how much you guys really care. You have given me hope. Hope in Humanity. I've seen so much cheating and lying and trickery since moving to Vacationland I was starting to wonder if I was the only person left in the world with any morals.
Now for the apology. I've been all over the place emotionally, since joining SI. I pride myself on being a very rational person, but even though it's been over a year since the last DDay, and even though being on SI has been really helpful, I found myself re-living everything that's transpired over the course of this relationship I am in. I've gone from anger, to depression, to feeling great, to hopeless, all in the span of a few hours. Very overwhelming... So I'm feeling bad that you all have had to be party to the 'emotional nutjob', that has been me for the past weekish.

kbl1301 posted 4/11/2014 08:03 AM

Thats why everyone is here, to help everyone else because we have and are still going through the same experiences.

simplydevastated posted 4/11/2014 08:05 AM

Never apologize for your emotions. You have them for a reason and that's to help you process what goes in your daily life. Don't ever feel that you have to keep everything bottled up, that's not healthy and most times, it will all come exploding out.

SI is a wonderful place to get the emotions out in a positive manner. As you've already said there are a great number of people here who care and it has also given me hope for humanity.

It's been a year since your last day, it's expected for your emotions to be all over the place. I've had multiple ddays and the first one was in 2008. There are some nights I still cry myself to sleep.

Sending you (((hugs))) and strength. You will get through this.

4everfaithful83 posted 4/11/2014 08:21 AM

No apologies! We've all been there!!

LosferWords posted 4/11/2014 08:29 AM

Justasinger - You are all good, dude. No apologies necessary! I've read some of your posts, and you don't come across as an emotional nutjob to me at all. Despite the circumstances that brought you here, I am glad you found us. You came to the right place. Please feel comfortable to post whatever is on your mind. We're here for you.

heforgotme posted 4/11/2014 08:35 AM

Uhh...we've all been to the crazy place since this happened, so don't feel bad about that at all.

I'm so glad we've been able to help to and completely concur with:

You have given me hope. Hope in Humanity.

Williesmom posted 4/11/2014 08:56 AM

Seriously, we've all had that seat on the crazy train - that's what makes our perspective so unique.

This is the most caring bunch of folks ever. Even when being harsh, I know that it is meant with my best interests in mind.

After you've emerged from this hell that you're currently in, please pay it forward - there is so much pain and need, especially in JFO.

justasinger posted 4/11/2014 09:34 AM

Seriously, best smile I've had in over a year just reading these responses. It feels great to have an actual, genuine smile.

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