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Beemer (original poster member #38499) posted at 9:48 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014
So I may be giving away my location here... this is something that has been in the news in my area recently.
The hotel that my WH and his OW liked to visit was recently shut down for being a meth-lab. I don't know why but I'm really seeing some parallels here... the state of their relationship as compared to the place they chose to conduct their illicit meetings - ugh gross
I almost feel bad for the OW - like really sweetheart? that's the best you could get him to do for you? a meth-lab? Now you know exactly what you were worth to him...haha
I don't know why I find this so funny - it's been a really long week and I might be coming a little bit unhinged today 
BW - Me (33)
FWH - Him (34)
Married - 8years
D-Day - 06/06/12
Status - Trying...things are good :)
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 10:41 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014
It is normal when dealing with trauma to have 'inappropriate' humor.
I too would likely find seeing their rendezvous point a sleazy cesspool fricken hilarious as a testament to the reality of what they 'shared'.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
TheBestMe ( member #39476) posted at 11:16 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014
My dumbass H was going to some tenement in NYC to be with donkey. He was so honorable, that he was paying the rent (it is rent stabilized; low income).
I can't imagine him stepping over crack vials to walk up 4 urine smelling flights to be met by donkey. That must have been some good monkey sex and ego kibbles. 
ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 24 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years
Both feet pointed forward; positive
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 11:32 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014
On the flip side, FWH and I were poor, really poor when we first were married. Our honeymoon consisted of a one night stay in the Bridal Suite in a mom and pop hotel in the hick town one hick town over and one level up from hickness than us. (They had a KFC!) We had moved away about 5 years after being married and have lived all over the USA.
We have now moved back to the state where our honeymoon hotel is. It was torn down about 10 or so years ago due to becoming a meth lab and crackhead hangout. 
I didn't know this at the time, but it was whilst my FWH was conducting his affair. Was it a sign?
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
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