That message he sent to you was nothing but a patronizing pile of crap.
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Best to deal with this type of person with detachment and a level of indifference otherwise
you'll get sucked back in.
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Since he puts himself on a pedestal, I would want to knock him off it in a most public way. I would contact my attorney and have him served in a most public way I could think of!
But that's just me being snarky on your behalf.
You need to be totally NC (no contact) with this guy. It is obvious he likes ego kibbles from everyone. Don't give him any.
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
You know what I did when I read that part?
He is sooo in love with himself and whomever can adore him 24/7. He is so selfish and immature and so full of himself, he doesn't even realize how HIS behaviors and actions has damaged others. He won't see it. That is how he is able to live like this.
You, my beautiful friend, our much more multi-dimentional and deserve to be in a much much better place. I liked gonnabe2016's response but I would shorten it just a bit ... "K" or if you are generous "ok". No need to tell him you are calling your lawyer. Not his business.
I hate to tell you this, there is no good response for bullshit except actions.
Action #1: Retain lawyer.
Actions #2: File.
Crickets and fuck that guy.
[This message edited by Lackingcourage at 10:28 PM, April 13th (Sunday)]
I've had to move on and it's not the life I envisioned. BUT, I have a friend who lost a husband to cancer and lost a son because he had cerebral palsy from birth issues. So,,,, I have learned alot from her in the last year about taking life day by day, and looking at what we do have and going from there.