Failure is success if we learn from it.
Why would he contact you today, years later, if he didn't feel you guys were looking for the same things? What's changed?
ETA: There was a guy I had plans to meet when I was dating. He canceled a few days before the date because he didn't want to date someone with kids... even though he knew about the kids prior to making the date and said that he dated a girl with kids before. A month or so later, he asked me out again. I turned him down with the excuse that I still have kids.
[This message edited by little turtle at 3:28 PM, April 13th (Sunday)]
3 boys: 8, 10 and 2 months