Topic: wedding anniversary...and nothing
Member # 30341
| Posted: 3:52 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014|
My wedding anniversary was April 8th, and I didn't think about it at all. Like in totally forgot about it. At church this morning they were asking for updated contact information. My wedding date was listed, after my name and address etc. I looked at that date, said "huh" to myself and scribbled over that puppy with my pencil. Scribbled it into oblivion even.
I knew the day would come when I wouldn't feel sad about my anniversary, I really didn't believe I would completely forget about it though. Huh, Who'd a thunk it?
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Posts: 3474 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 30346
| Posted: 5:44 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014|
Yeah, that was this past year for me. I remembered it before the date…but the date of? Totally forgot.
me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Posts: 4588 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 24518
| Posted: 5:59 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014|
Good for you!
Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect
Posts: 12307 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Member # 42092
| Posted: 1:46 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
You are racking up the wins lately!
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4318 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Member # 34722
| Posted: 2:57 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Isn't that a great realization?? I even forgot my first anniversary after DDay and it was only 6 weeks later, still lots of contact with the pos, now xpos. The only reason it came to mind was that one DS *insisted* on talking with me *that day*, which made me question it to myself. I thought he had a problem he needed to talk about that weekend.
Part of figuring out why was to look at the calendar. It took a while, but the date finally stood out as the reason. He was worried about me and didn't want me to spend the day alone, so wanted to talk to me. I was totally upbeat during our talk and it wasn't an act. I hope that came across to him.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 2957 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Member # 33226
| Posted: 5:27 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
You can call me NIK
"And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be."
- Sarah McMane
Posts: 32013 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 37293
| Posted: 5:32 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Yeah!!! I'm so happy for you. I, also, didn't notice mine. Best realization ever.
"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."
Posts: 171 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 40173
| Posted: 5:44 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Unfortunately that will never be the case for me. Got married on my birthday, which happens to be the day after Christmas.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
Posts: 1108 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 35229
| Posted: 7:16 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
WOOWHOO! I've always been terrible with dates so I've had a few pass me by. I remember months but not the dates without looking them up. I don't look them up.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5934 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 33129
| Posted: 7:58 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
My Divorce date IS my wedding anniversary date... So I will forever celebrate that day as the best day of the rest of my life!
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
Posts: 3638 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Member # 10866
| Posted: 8:12 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Holy crap, this post made me realize that mine was three weeks ago on March 28. I literally just remembered when I read this!
Yes, I think that is a huge sign of healing!
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15563 | Registered: Jun 2006
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