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StillLivin posted 4/13/2014 22:15 PM

He is being served tomorrow morning. He doesn't believe I would change LS to D. He is gonna be pissed cuz it's gonna be a huge blow to his ego. Arrogant as a whole! Sorry, I digress. He will have 20 days to contest. That's 20 days that I will hold my breath. If he doesn't contest, I can file for default and be D'd within 61 days of him being served. Been nervous all day and praying he doesn't contest. Could sure use some calming thoughts and good mojo for 20 days.

dmari posted 4/13/2014 22:16 PM

I'm sending all my calming energy to you!! I hope he doesn't contest just to piss you off. Continue moving forward StillLivin!!

deena posted 4/13/2014 22:40 PM

You are going to be ok.

Things sometimes have a better outcome than we think they will be.
Remember you are stronger now after all of the crap you have gone thru. You are a survivor.


I am on a high right now myself. I just went thru something I thought was going to be horrible and was surprised at how well it went.

((((((((StillLivin))))))))))

And lots of mojo

SBB posted 4/14/2014 06:26 AM

Whatever happens you're going to be OK. Don't let this wait set you back - keep moving forward, always forward.

NC is really important right now because he is likely to yank your chain. Give him some of those skinny crickets!!!

StillLivin posted 4/14/2014 13:53 PM

Thank you for the support everyone.
The process server went to the apartment. His SUV was there. He wouldn't come to the door.
Crap as if paying for an attorney and process server wasn't enough. Now I'm going to have to pay extra for the wait hours for the server to wait around for him to come out of the house.
This sucks.
Why won't he let me D him? HE wanted this shit. I wanted to work on the M up until the day he walked out on me.

The process server will try two more times at no cost to me. He is an a..whole.

Cookie7088 posted 4/14/2014 14:40 PM

The process server went to the apartment. His SUV was there. He wouldn't come to the door.

It's at this time, I wish someone could pull a fire alarm...

Funnier, knock at the door, and tell him someone is towing away his vehicle...

I have felt your pain, sister!

norabird posted 4/14/2014 15:57 PM

((((StillLivin))))

I know the next 20 days will seem long--but you are getting so close to the finish line!! Hang in there!!

nowiknow23 posted 4/14/2014 16:00 PM

Sending you good mojo. Even if he does contest it, you will be ok, honey. Promise. ((((StillLivin))))

StillLivin posted 4/14/2014 18:47 PM

@ Cookie7088, hmmmm wonder if it is some kind of criminal offense to pull a fire alarm???? JK
@norabird, the 20 day countdown doesn't start until AFTER he is served...right now he is avoiding service. Go figure.
@ NIK. I know I will survive. Right now, I've done everything I an to work towards doing the right thing and D'ing his pathetic a..! At this point, as far as I am concerned, I am D'd because I did everything within my power to push the D through.
I'm unemployed, so no extra money to be trying to pay hundreds to thousands of dollars chasing him down to have him served.
I was afraid he would act stupid...it's been his MO so far. Jerkface a..whole!

Cookie7088 posted 4/14/2014 20:01 PM

@ Cookie7088, hmmmm wonder if it is some kind of criminal offense to pull a fire alarm???? JK

Oh, hell....only if you get caught...I mean, after all, even if you do...somewhere there's millions of excuses used everyday...we've heard them all....

Tripletrouble posted 4/14/2014 20:11 PM

Good mojo coming your way!

StillLivin posted 4/14/2014 22:30 PM

Thank you triple!
Cookie, Bwahahaha....sounds right, just don't get caught!

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