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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
Phoenix1
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Concerned  Posted: 4:05 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Missing since early afternoon after going hiking. It is now 2 am his time. His Army buddy went searching and we now have both civilian law enforcement and the military involved. Something is wrong.

I don't know how much more I can take.....


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1316 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Waiting4Daylite
♀ 36213
Member # 36213
Default  Posted: 4:30 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix1 & Son))))

I've been following your posts and will continue to send prayers, positive thoughts, hope, and hugs your way for your continued strength and for your son.


Posts: 1871 | Registered: Jul 2012
Cally60
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Member # 23437
Default  Posted: 4:30 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Phoenix.

I don't know what to say, but I wanted to post to let you know I've read your message and will be thinking of you. And of your poor son, who's been through so much in the last few weeks.

I know that all here who read your message will, like me, be fervently hoping that he'll be found very, very soon - safe and well.

[This message edited by Cally60 at 4:32 AM, April 14th (Monday)]


Posts: 2206 | Registered: Mar 2009
Bluebird26
♀ 36445
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope he is ok.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1409 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 5:19 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(((Phoenix)))


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13934 | Registered: Jul 2011
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix1)))))


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 8086 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))))


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38995 | Registered: Sep 2007
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG!! I don't know what to say. I've been following your other thread. I'm so sorry for everything you're going through.

Sending strength and (((hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Unagie
♀ 37091
Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sending prayers and strength. (((((Phoenix1))))


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2813 | Registered: Oct 2012
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))))

That has to be so scary. Sending prayers and mojo that he is found soon, and that he is safe and well.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and mojo.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 45428 | Registered: Sep 2006
5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today. Strength and Mojo.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 21(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3315 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What?? ((((Phoenix))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4247 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots and lots of prayers!
((((Phoenix))))


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1526 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
lordhasaplan?
♂ 30079
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for your son. Mojo sending.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1936 | Registered: Nov 2010
Rainbows
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Member # 39362
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

Been following your other thread and keeping you and your family in my prayers.


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 415 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh ((((Phoenix)))) oh my goodness! I hope he is found safe and sound today.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 888 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

I hope he turns up soon, safe and sound.


There will come a time, you'll see, with no more tears. And love will not break your heart, but dismiss your fears.

Posts: 8292 | Registered: Dec 2010
AgainandAgain
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Member # 34835
Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart is breaking for you. I'm praying he is found safe and sound!

(((((((((((((((Phoenix and DS))))))))))))))


Posts: 237 | Registered: Feb 2012
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))


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