Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: wonkeddev

Divorce/Separation :
World's Biggest Donkey

This Topic is Archived
default

 Smashedat58 (original poster member #41705) posted at 1:51 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Yesterday, was a real ordeal. The two tech geniuses, STBXH and OW, somehow managed to route all of their texts through me. I think they were trying to update their IPhones and passwords because of the latest virus, and somehow managed to include me in on their thread. What a pair! He is promising her trips to the Amalfi Coast, and all of the other places on their list. This morning, he sends me a revised budget, he has to pay for all of those trips and gifts for OW.

I suggested he move in with his mother to save his apartment rent, and take care of her while she is recuperating from a sprained wrist, so I don't have to. I think he is going to try to force her custody on me, as a part of the settlement.

posts: 178   ·   registered: Dec. 18th, 2013   ·   location: Upstate New York
id 6758644
default

SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 8:59 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Bump

posts: 10034   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
id 6759233
default

Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 9:16 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Hehe, I sense a big wake up call coming for the donkey where mom and money are concerned! Have you got Temp. Support in the works yet?

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

posts: 4432   ·   registered: May. 6th, 2009   ·   location: New England
id 6759264
default

7yrsflushed ( member #32258) posted at 9:23 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Ok is it sad that I clicked on this post expecting pics? With all the photoshop/meme men and women around here I couldn't help it.

Smashed, have they fixed it yet? If not get the popcorn out this could get real interesting. Also I assume your stuff isn't going to them right?

[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 3:24 PM, April 14th (Monday)]

D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

posts: 2231   ·   registered: May. 24th, 2011   ·   location: VA
id 6759275
default

Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:31 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

PLEASE tell me that you saved every one of those texts for your lawyer to use for your settlement!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6759423
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy