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User Topic: Procrastination
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I REALLY need to mow the backyard. The winter rye grass is like six to eight inches tall and may start choking out the Bermuda that's trying to grow.

Yesterday it was 85 with a heat index of 90. It was TOO hot.

Today it is 45 with a wind chill of 31. It is TOO cold.

I am the Goldilocks of lawn care!

I'm going to take a nap instead! I'm sure it will eventually be between 60-75 degrees!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I completely approve of your procrastination. It's the only logical response to such uncooperative weather. Have a nice nap.


You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön


Posts: 28171 | Registered: Aug 2011
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My darling husband procrastinates so much (with regard to lawncare), that I gave up and hired someone.

This works a lot better for my nerves, but unfortunately for him, this allowed me to add a few other things to his "Honey Do" list.


Me - 42
DD(21), DS(19, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids - 3 dogs, 2 cats

SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - F that guy.

XWH#1 (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6987 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am the Goldilocks of lawn care


Posts: 38199 | Registered: Mar 2011
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I say don't do it unless it's exactly 72 degrees - no wind. Mowing in anything else is asking for trouble.


"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 20709 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3293 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No-Mow Zone?!
Thank goodness hubby never saw THAT particular sign when I was after him to mow the lawn.


Me - 42
DD(21), DS(19, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids - 3 dogs, 2 cats

SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - F that guy.

XWH#1 (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6987 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Procastination is like masturbation; it feels good at the time, but in the end you're just fucking yourself"


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 1904 | Registered: Sep 2012
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha!

Well it was 65 when I got home today so it Was. Just. Right.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brrrrr, 65 degrees?!?! No THANK you!


"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 20709 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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