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User Topic: more email advice
Leia
♀ 42510
Member # 42510
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

STBXWH is having an Easter Party! Yeah! He's already invited a little friend and her family for DD, and now he is trying to get contact info from me to talk to DS's friends. He emailed me this morning, and then texted again this afternoon. When I first started on SI, Skan pointed out that I've been fired from the secretary's position. What I want to do is email him back reiterate that I'm not the secretary of the party planning committee. Plus, I don't feel like I should share the info I have without contacting the people he wants to invite first. It just seems rude to give out someone's contact info. Any advice about what I should do? It seems awkward and like a huge waste of my time. Thanks!


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
ArkLaMiss
♀ 14918
Member # 14918
Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Give him crickets. He's delusional.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1232 | Registered: Jun 2007
Gemini71
♀ 40115
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like the whole, "You fired me as wife/secretary. That includes the part planning committee."


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1971 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unless DS specifically asks you to give his father the information (then you would be doing it for DS), just give STBX crickets.
No sense in overtly poking the tiger by proverbially sticking out your tongue at him...but no need to play the dutiful wife either. KWIM.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2501 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I vote for crickets too.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2781 | Registered: Jan 2010
Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Chirp chirp chirp....


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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