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Leia posted 4/14/2014 17:16 PM

STBXWH is having an Easter Party! Yeah! He's already invited a little friend and her family for DD, and now he is trying to get contact info from me to talk to DS's friends. He emailed me this morning, and then texted again this afternoon. When I first started on SI, Skan pointed out that I've been fired from the secretary's position. What I want to do is email him back reiterate that I'm not the secretary of the party planning committee. Plus, I don't feel like I should share the info I have without contacting the people he wants to invite first. It just seems rude to give out someone's contact info. Any advice about what I should do? It seems awkward and like a huge waste of my time. Thanks!

ArkLaMiss posted 4/14/2014 17:29 PM

Give him crickets. He's delusional.

Gemini71 posted 4/14/2014 21:32 PM

I like the whole, "You fired me as wife/secretary. That includes the part planning committee."

StillLivin posted 4/14/2014 22:19 PM

Unless DS specifically asks you to give his father the information (then you would be doing it for DS), just give STBX crickets.
No sense in overtly poking the tiger by proverbially sticking out your tongue at him...but no need to play the dutiful wife either. KWIM.

Chrysalis123 posted 4/15/2014 10:07 AM

I vote for crickets too.

Skan posted 4/15/2014 19:50 PM

Chirp chirp chirp....