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Just need to do some venting... Bad language to follow

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 courageous (original poster member #34477) posted at 12:54 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Dear exwh,

I use the word dear very loosely as I think you are a big, fat, lying, cheating, asshole that doesn't deserve to share the same air I breath. You are so stupid and pathetic; you can't even do anything by yourself. You always need someone to hold your widdle hand.

You know what they say about bullies... They are really just big cowards. Well exwh you are the biggest coward of them all. You can go fuck yourself. I hate you. I will never ever I like you.

Stop thinking that I want to seat with you at kid school events. You smell like a fat ass. I can't stand being in the same room as you.

I am counting down the years until I never have to see or talk to you again. You disgust me! Oh and the kids things always come back smelling so nasty. You really should learn how to clean the house some time.

I will laugh when your whore/ "wife" cheats on you. It's not a matter of "if" but when.

I'm sure I will have some more I need to release as he will never stop being an asshole. Feel free to join in with your own vent.

Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.

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Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 2:15 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Sometimes you just gotta get it all out! I hope that vent relieved some stress, and tomorrow is better.

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 2:19 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I am counting down the years until I never have to see or talk to you again.

Amen, sister!!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Caretaker1 ( member #42777) posted at 3:03 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

That ass smell is just awful.....

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nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 4:48 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I am counting down the years until I never have to see or talk to you again.

LOL!

That said, I hope your vent made you feel better and that instead of giving your ex all that head space for the next x number of years, that you can move toward indifference so that he is so insignificant it doesn't even matter how many years it still is.

Kwim?

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 5:40 AM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((((Courageous)))))

Sit. Feast on your life.

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 courageous (original poster member #34477) posted at 12:19 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Yes the vent made me feel better. I said all the angry things here so when I sent him a communication regarding the kids it was completely without any emotion or opinion.

He face times with the kids at night. Some times I can't help but be in the same room with them. I can't stand his voice. He thinks he sooooo smart when really he is just a stupid ass.

Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.

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