Topic: Said Goodbye to an Old Friend Today
Member # 5491
| Posted: 7:27 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
So I had to say goodbye to my dog (Heidi) this morning.
We (the kids and I) rescued her about 8 years ago.
She was 12-13 years old (old for a Red Tick Coonhound) and was showing her age for quite some time. She also had been in congestive heart failure for a couple of years.
She’d been unsteady on her feet for a while, particularly after getting up in the morning.
Let her out Saturday morning to do her business. A bit later in the morning she tried to climb the stairs to get to where the cats and I were…but she stumbled down the after getting up about 2 stairs. Afterward she went to get in her bed. And there she stayed until this morning.
Come Sunday, she couldn’t stand up. When I tried to help her she couldn’t carry her weight and collapsed. Plus she was breathing heavy, her legs appeared swollen as well as her abdomen. She didn’t eat the last half of Saturday and none on Sunday. She couldn’t even lift her head this morning.
So I called the vet as soon as they opened this morning and they said they would accommodate her whenever we could make it in. I had to carry her in.
As soon as the vet walked in the room he said: "Well….we have two options here. You can take her home to die…or we can do it here."
And so...she went gently off to sleep at about 9am this morning.
Good God…didn’t expect it to be that difficult! I figured I’d get emotional…but not so much as I did. Thankfully....sadcat (SI member) lives down the road from me and agreed to be there with me. Thank you for that, sadcat.
Probably should have done it earlier....but we hold on to hope, don't we?
She was a good dog.
Not a good start to the day....
"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.
"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad...from Craig's List
Posts: 8504 | Registered: Oct 2004 | From: North Atlanta Burbs
Member # 18449
| Posted: 7:29 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
(((Kuwaited and Sadcat)))
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008
Member # 16237
| Posted: 7:35 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
(((Kuwaited and family)))
Posts: 1375 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 13224
| Posted: 7:47 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry Kuwaited. ((((Kuwaited and kids))))
Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives
*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*
Posts: 10288 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Southeast of Disorder
Member # 10310
| Posted: 8:09 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
IMO, dogs are family and we mourn their passing as such
(((Kuwaited & family)))
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
Posts: 3392 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
Member # 25001
| Posted: 8:14 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry.
Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)
Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 22870
| Posted: 8:45 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7992 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:50 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry. Sending hugs.
Posts: 38304 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 11185
| Posted: 8:55 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry. Heidi gave you so much love--and you gave the same to her. Dogs are the best people!
BW -- 57
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
Posts: 442 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
Member # 33226
| Posted: 9:20 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
(((((kuwaited & family))))) I'm so very sorry.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28372 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 30369
| Posted: 9:27 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Aw man... I am so sorry to hear that, Kuwaited. You did the most humane thing you could have done, but it is always so hard to say goodbye.
Posts: 10690 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 2959
| Posted: 9:51 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
sorry for your lost of Heidi, its hard to lose a furbabie ....
Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
Member # 18179
| Posted: 10:04 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm really sorry the time came, Kuwaited.
Poor old girl; I'm sure you made the right decision, painful as it was.
(((Kuwaited & the rest of Heidi's family)))
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
Posts: 3953 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Member # 20563
| Posted: 10:35 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
(((Kuwaited and family)))
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
Posts: 6874 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
Member # 2
| Posted: 11:08 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry you had to make such a painful and sad decision...it's never easy. You sent her off with love and dignity, she couldn't have asked for any greater gift from you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 201018 | Registered: May 2002
Member # 40229
| Posted: 11:12 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Oh my, your post had me bawling.
So sorry for your loss.
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
Posts: 2806 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 29532
| Posted: 11:30 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
My heart goes out to you. Our pets are like family and it hurts so badly to see them decline and to lose them. Thinking of you as you grieve. Hugs...
Posts: 140 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 31349
| Posted: 11:32 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014|
Poor sweet girl. You gave her a loving life. She will always be with you.
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20974 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 17840
| Posted: 12:45 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so sorry. That's not too far in the future for me.
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
Posts: 6660 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
Member # 34823
| Posted: 1:27 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I have an older dog who is undergoing treatment for cancer right now. I'll be faced with the same decision as you in the 'not too far off' future. I don't like being 'tasked' with this decision of when it is the 'right' time for my dog to die.
I'm so sorry. You loved her and she loved you.......
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 8438 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
|Topic Posts: 29|