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User Topic: The next time...
♀ 42093
Member # 42093
Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go out with friends - I won't bombard you with texts if you're out late, I won't worry and I won't question, I'll go out with friends as well.

You hit the bar everyday and fall asleep in your car - I won't wait up for you, I won't come looking for you.

You say you need space - I won't argue, I won't cry, I won't call, I won't text, I will try not to think about you, I will give you exactly what you're asking for.

You sleep on the couch - I will close the bedroom door and enjoy the silence.

You say you want to move out - I won't fight it, I won't offer you furniture from our house or dishes or pictures to fill your empty walls because you won't take them anyway. I won't let you pay bills at our house if you aren't living here. I won't consider your idea of me spending the night at your new apartment, because if you wanted to show off for me, you could've done it at our home. If it were about having something of your own, you would've realized it was here.

You say you don't ever want to be with me - I will believe you and let you go.

You say you miss me - I will ponder on this and ask myself do I feel the same.

You say you love me - I will think of how you've shown it recently, I will look into your eyes and ask myself if it's true.

This is our journey! This is how this has changed me my love, this is how I've become different because of your actions and this is how I will recognize you're different the next time you...

Me - GF (38)
Him - BF (33)
DDay - 08/13
Together 8 Years
In R

Posts: 133 | Registered: Jan 2014
♀ 40166
Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear your pain.

Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 1127 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It hurts that this is what our love turns into. But it's what must be. Now is the time to remember the truth, and ignore his flowery words. Now is the time to protect yourself. Stay strong friend.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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