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User Topic: Another insult to injury about divorce
Tripletrouble
♀ 39169
Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As if I haven't been put through enough, now my home and auto insurance are going up because divorced people are riskier to insure. WTF?? My husband shits on the family and so I forget how to drive and a tree is going to fall on my house? I'm so sick of this bullshit. Every time I turn around there's another slap in the face.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Tripletrouble))))

I'm sorry honey. It's not fair. But you knew that already.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Charity411
♀ 41033
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((tripletrouble)))))

I'm totally with you on this. I feel the same way about the tax structure. You are penalized for being single. And don't even get me started on the subject of traveling single.


Posts: 402 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My insurance went down for home & auto. Please have your agent explain the rise in your premiums. Go in person, if necessary.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10012 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Tripletrouble
♀ 39169
Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I grilled them twice. It's because I had a married discount that was removed. I could see if I was a new customer and this was their price structure, but I've been a customer for 20 years! I also had to pay utility companies to have the bill changed to my name. The same bill I've paid for all these years, I had to PAY to keep paying it! Ugh!!! It just seems like the world wants to kick a chick when she's down. I feel like I'm a second class citizen in a million ways.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
Newlease
♀ 7767
Member # 7767
Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get a quote from another insurance company.

Complain to your Public Service Commission about having to pay deposits to put the utilities in your name. I did and got my deposits waived.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7786 | Registered: Aug 2005
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, you're not being treated right. I was able to put all the utilities into my name and did not pay a deposit or any other kind of fee. Also, my rates for insurance (home & auto) went WAY down once the divorce is final, something I was told is normal.

My experience was that the utility companies went out of their way to help make the situation as seamless as possible. I was open with them all about why this was happening. I didn't have to pay the final bill for many of the utilities, they sent it to my ex because it was his name (or they wrote it off).


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10012 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 7

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