Me: fBH 46
Her: exWW 42
DDay: Nov 1, 2012
Divorced: September 17, 2013
Thanks for belittling our many years of M with just sex
After finding a topless pic of a mutual friend in his phone, he tells me
"its just boobs, everybody has boobs"
He really seen no problem with him having this pic. I on the other hand did.
First one: after dday # GodOnlyKnows, after a ONS, an online A, an EA, another A, false R and final blow up, he came to the house one morning and said, "Please, don't give up on us. Please just give me one chance to make it right."
Yes, I actually did R with him after that, following his successful surgery to remove his head from his ass.
Then, we were discussing going somewhere and maybe not taking our boys. He was wanting to bring the younger one and said, "You don't know what it's like to be apart from your son and miss him so much."
I said, "No, but I know what it's like to hold him every night while he cries until he throws up because he misses his dad so much and wants to know why Daddy can't come home. Trade ya!"
One of the all time great deal breakers for me. Couldnt talk for a week after that one. Really? Unfreakin believable.
"I don't understand why you and OW continue to try to be mean to and hurt each other."
I was just living MY life and offering MY WH the chance to R - OW was the emotionally insecure couldn't actually get my WH to leave me woman who wouldn't leave well enough alone. Granted since her social media pages were at the time the only place I was getting even the slightest semblance of the truth - she was certainly trying to hurt me. Except more times than not I was able to foil their plans because of her premature postings. :-)
or my ALL time Favorite:
"Maybe we should just D now while we can still be friends - you know before we hate each other."
I think my response was "You are talking about abandoning me, our children, our home and our life for a woman who can't outshine my faintest candle with a million lumen spotlight and you think I won't HATE you?"
Or my other favorite - "Even if I move across the country and see them when I can - I'll always be their Daddy." Got that one straight from OW's mouth apparently.
Yes, my WH was a very foggy man!
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.
Um, no it isn't obvious, you see, I just read your emails back and forth and I am a little perplexed to say the least
Also, when it was disclosed that it was a full on PA, I exclaimed "OMG! What if she's pregnant?!?!?!" WS said "she's on the pill, she can't get pregnant" to which I replied "what if she is lying about being on the pill in order to trap you with a OC?" WS's reply......... "she would never lie to me!".