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Faithful w/Love posted 4/15/2014 13:35 PM

is nothing of what Phoenix is going through.
Through my pain and sorrow, I could not imagine losing a child or a sibling.

I am blessed to have my children and sibling. I am going to focus on that more. It just dawned on me after reading about poor phoenix, how much I may be over looking because of my sorrow. But, to have and be able to touch and feel my kids is the best blessing in the world. Life is to short for all this drama that was given to me for no reason, but I chose to fight for it when it was already gone. Phoenix didn't have a choice of her beloved child, he was just taken without her getting to hold him or feel his touch. I am blessed and I will hold that close to my heart more.

Life is not as bad as it could be.

What a wake up call for me to count my blessings even more not what is happening that is bad.

somanyyears posted 4/15/2014 13:52 PM

..^^^^^^ THIS...

..I can't imagine there being any greater pain than that being endured by Phoenix and her family at this time..

..my troubles pale in comparison..

..prayers sent to Phoenix and her family.

smy

dmari posted 4/15/2014 14:04 PM


I am speechless. We all need to lift Phoenix1 and her family up in our thoughts and keep them in our hearts. I just can't even wrap my brain around her losses. It is just too much for one person to carry.

confused615 posted 4/15/2014 14:20 PM

I agree. This woman has lost enough. It's too much. Way too much.

MadeOfScars posted 4/15/2014 15:08 PM

Dear God...I hadn't ventured into off topic for a while...had no idea. My heart absolutely breaks for this woman. It is beautiful to see all the prayers and compassion sent her way, but damn, no one should have to go through all this in a lifetime, let alone such a short time.

Faithful w/Love posted 4/15/2014 15:37 PM

I agree Madeofscares,
I just keep feeling her pain today. I could not imagine losing a child. Too much is right!

sunandmoon posted 4/15/2014 15:43 PM

Amen

sunandmoon

jackie89 posted 4/15/2014 16:08 PM

Faithful - good post, to remind us what is REALLY important in our lives.

I can't even imagine Phoenix's pain at this very moment.

ThisHell posted 4/15/2014 22:50 PM

You are so right Faithful. It is very easy to be bogged down by our trials. But oh how my heart breaks for her reading this. I had no idea...

We are all so blessed every day in some way. I just cannot imagine. Tonight my prayers will be very full.

Unagie posted 4/15/2014 22:57 PM

My heart absolutely bleeds for her. The tragedy of her brother and sister in law, her nieces behaviors and it lifted my spirits to see how supportive her son was being. It absolutely broke my heart to find out what happened to him. I would lose it if I lost my brother let alone to lose a child as well. I pray for her every day.

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 4/15/2014 23:16 PM

Absolutely. It's unimaginable!

MissMouseMo posted 4/16/2014 01:52 AM

You're right, of course, Faithful.

I was watching before her son was missing and felt great empathy (I lost a sibling suddenly, unexpectedly) and wished I could help - and then the absolutely unfathomable happened.

Thanks for bringing it out of OT so others who treasure her but don't frequent that forum can send their comfort, such as any of it is.

Bluebird26 posted 4/16/2014 03:22 AM

I have lost a child the pain in unimaginable.

But to lose so many family members in such a short period of time if heart wrenching.

Thinking of you ((((Phoenix))))

SBB posted 4/16/2014 03:44 AM

That he was such a tremendous young man makes the loss all the more painful. It is fitting that in his passing he has inspired us to hold our children tight and remind us of the blessings in our lives. He continues to be a blessing - even in this time of unfathomable grief.

Tawnee1969 posted 4/16/2014 04:55 AM

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I can't imagine there being any greater pain than that being endured by Phoenix and her family at this time..

This x 1000

I am giving extra cuddles today

Tawnee1969 posted 4/16/2014 04:55 AM

.

I can't imagine there being any greater pain than that being endured by Phoenix and her family at this time..

This x 1000

I am giving extra cuddles today

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