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Wish me luck please first MC tonight
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brokeninhalf4034 posted 4/15/2014 14:46 PM
I am so nervous. Had a good day today with WS. Now I feel like we are suiting up for battle.
forgivingnow posted 4/15/2014 16:09 PM
Good luck tonight. Take a small notebook, it's hard to remember some things when there is so much emotion. Respond calmly, share what you feel. You won't figure out or understand everything in one night. It's a process. Be there for each other.
Skan posted 4/15/2014 18:22 PM
This is just the first day of many. Take a deep breath, remember to breathe, and settle in for the long-haul. If you're unclear about something, ask for clarification or examples. If you don't agree with something, speak up. And never let your pain be marginalized.
OakStreet posted 4/15/2014 19:34 PM
Good Luck broken!
I found the MC sessions to be a relief - a neutral, calming field.
Our first MC was not a good "fit" - they can't ALL be good - so if you don't feel comfortable with this one, don't give up!
Hope it goes well. There will still be rough times ahead, but MC is a great place to be.