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User Topic: Don't need your help anymore
♀ 42758
Member # 42758
Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

STBXH a while back wanted me to give him my resume so he can pass it on to someone....we are NOT on good terms (with STBXH..he is mad because I retained an attorney and he wanted to negotiate terms between us)! I work part time now and happy at my job...while I eventually will have to get full time work....we are separated and he lost the opportunity to help me with anything when he left in January!

STBXH: I do not need your help to help me find a full time job just because you want to get out of paying alimony and the least amount of child support possible after sleeping with the neighbor and not wanting to R.

He sent me a text about emailing my resume to him...all he received was crickets from me. He said "my suspicions were correct, how disappointing and aweful"....really? and I am NOT disappointed that you broke my heart and cheated on me and broke up our family?!? WH get your head our of your ass and stop being delusional!

I have a meeting with my attorney tomorrow to go over mediation which is scheduled for next Tuesday. I am so ready to move forward with my life.

[This message edited by freeatlast72 at 3:21 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]

Kids: DD7
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.

Posts: 137 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: North Carolina
♀ 34722
Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good job going crickets and venting here. Anything sent to him would be wasted; they just don't "get it". It's all about HIM and what HE will get from you getting a job.

And, MOJO for Thursday.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 3861 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
♀ 40115
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an idiot. Even if you were looking for full-time employment, I wouldn't trust him not to blackball you in the community. What an ass.

One day
I'm gonna forget your name,
And one sweet day,
you're gonna drown in my lost pain. - "Sweet Sacrifice" by Evanescence

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3391 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
♀ 41181
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Smh - what a typical wayward stunt... to try to 'help' you after blowing up your marriage and blitzing your future.... now he wants to 'help' glad you gave him crickets!

Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
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