“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."
You should have an attorney review any and all proposed terms before you accept them.
Yes,your own attorney will cost a bit. But you should not pretend that you understand how divorce laws and settlements work. Penny-wise is not the way to go.
[This message edited by Merlin at 10:08 AM, April 16th (Wednesday)]
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Pros and cons for both! best of luck.