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User Topic: What would you do if you received a voice mail from a random ow?
cannibal
♂ 40560
Member # 40560
Default  Posted: 3:40 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So that's the question. I was cleaning out my voice mail the other day and I had received a call from a woman trying to get a hold of her married ap.The voice mail went "I had a lot of fun last night. I think I left my toys under your bed, but I think they are hidden so your wife won't find them. I love you, baby. See you on your lunch break.


Me: BF 35 Her: FWF 35 dss: 17
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: cannibal
Guinness23
♀ 42852
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 4:10 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What would you do if you received a voice mail from a random ow

Call her up pretending to be the wife and tell her I threw her toys. Also, explain to her that the meds for my (ficticious) STD (fill in the blank) haven't worked and ask her what she recommends for a real bad outbreak that came from my husband


Me 47
ExH 43
Divorced 2010

47 is the new year of treating myself better than I have in 6 years.

What ever doesn't kill me makes me stronger so long as I remember that

My favorite drink is no longer Guinness but water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 859 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
NeverAgain2013
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Member # 38121
Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honestly, what kind of swamp donkey thinks it's perfectly OK to screw around in some married guys' MARITAL bed and bring a sack of disgusting toys WITH her - then LEAVE them there?

That had to be some kind of crank call. Otherwise, I'm going to lose ALL my faith in the sisterhood.


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1956 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
Lalagirl
♀ 14576
Member # 14576
Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call her up pretending to be the wife and tell her I threw her toys. Also, explain to her that the meds for my (ficticious) STD (fill in the blank) haven't worked and ask her what she recommends for a real bad outbreak that came from my husband

Friggin priceless! Do it, do it (chanting...)


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 3 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5173 | Registered: May 2007
dailyflowers
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call her up pretending to be the wife and tell her I threw her toys. Also, explain to her that the meds for my (ficticious) STD (fill in the blank) haven't worked and ask her what she recommends for a real bad outbreak that came from my husband


Friggin priceless! Do it, do it (chanting...)


DO IT !! DO IT!!

lmao


eesh-- what an 'effing mess!!!

Posts: 504 | Registered: Dec 2011
Lovedyoumore
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Member # 35593
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, maybe ask which ones are hers and which ones belongs to OW #2 so they can be sorted out to their rightful owners. Another OW moving in on her? Oh my!


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1611 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
mandala
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DO IT!! Do it!!! DO IT!!!

Then come back and tell us what she said.


Me: BW 50
Him: WH 50
Married 21 years
Four awesome kids
EA Began 6/2013 PA 8-9/2013 (4 meetings) DDay 9/10/2013
OW : "friend" - older, fatter and uglier than me.
Working on R

Posts: 53 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: usa
TheBestMe
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honestly, what kind of swamp donkey thinks it's perfectly OK to screw around in some married guys' MARITAL bed and bring a sack of disgusting toys WITH her - then LEAVE them there

Damn, donkey gets around!!!


ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 23 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years

Both feet pointed forward; positive


Posts: 508 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Inner Peace
NoMorDeceit
♀ 23547
Member # 23547
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*swamp donkey*....my new favorite term!!


FBS, been through the D marathon too.
Many D Days in April 2009
Multiple affairs, LTAs, and many OWs
Reconciled... There is hope! :)


Posts: 607 | Registered: Apr 2009
hummingbird8
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Member # 25086
Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you check under your bed? This to me sounds like an OW who wants to "accidentally" out the MM.

Posts: 514 | Registered: Aug 2009
deena04
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call her up pretending to be the wife and tell her I threw her toys. Also, explain to her that the meds for my (ficticious) STD (fill in the blank) haven't worked and ask her what she recommends for a real bad outbreak that came from my husband

I love that; do it, please do it! Also, tell her you were wondering whose those toys were as WS said they were some toys from long ago from the WORST sex experience of his life!


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
L-I-B-E-R-A-T-I-N-G ME

Posts: 1307 | Registered: Dec 2013
cannibal
♂ 40560
Member # 40560
Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ended up just texting her back and suggested some good reading for her. I'm a man so as funny as it would be to fake an std I just don't think it would be believable. Thanks for all the input and hopefully she sees the harm in her actions and changes her ways.


Me: BF 35 Her: FWF 35 dss: 17
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: cannibal
Guinness23
♀ 42852
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Suggested some reading material for her??? Cannibal....WTF???

I KNOW you are a guy...but you could have maximized this opportunity to help the poor women whose husband is deluded by this skank.


Me 47
ExH 43
Divorced 2010

47 is the new year of treating myself better than I have in 6 years.

What ever doesn't kill me makes me stronger so long as I remember that

My favorite drink is no longer Guinness but water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 859 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
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