A girl I went to HS with, but didn't really know then, and certainly don't really know now friended me on FB a couple months ago. She was obviously going through a transition period and was moving back to our home town (where I live). She started dating someone about 3 weeks ago as someone I recognized as liking one of my pictures on match about a week earlier than that.
A few days ago she posted the "in a relationship with..." post. I looked at him up on match and he was not hidden. In fact, he had been active within 24 hours (for match, that means essentially any time after 1 hour had passed before a day). He then viewed my profile the next day. I didn't feel comfortable getting involved, especially since the views aren't date or time stamped. What if I was wrong? I knew he was active, but maybe they emailed that way or something that wasn't any of my business.
Today she posted a FB message that they broke up, he was jealous and turned weird....blah blah whatever.
I FB messaged her some of the general information I listed above and a screen shot of the viewing so she could see his picture. Again, I said that it's not date stamped, but since they broke up, I thought she should know that she wasn't to blame. I was very apologetic.
She read the messages almost two hours ago. No reply.
I regret telling her. I could just tell she was beating herself up over a failed relationship and I thought she should know he wasn't a good guy (without saying..."Hey...he isn't a good guy").
Oh well, I don't know her very well. If she is mad at me over anything (not telling, telling, whatever), she can unfriend me on FB. It's not like we have a real friendship.
[This message edited by tabitha95 at 2:54 AM, April 20th (Sunday)]