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User Topic: Need mojo for me and B f f
purplejacket4
♀ 34262
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We take our once a decade boards in the morning. I'm dreading the Prometric no jewelry, wallets, search with a wand more than the actual test.

I made a P&J sandwich for lunch with Cheetos (how elem school) for comfort food.

It's only 380 questions with four possible answers for 1520 total possible answers. When I told fWS that her mouth dropped open. She took the test last year but isn't as OCD as I am. She took me on a dry run to the testing center tonight and pointed out through the window everything. She's also making me breakfast in the morning. She's been quite spectacular about it really.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2354 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive mojo your way. Deep breaths!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of mojo. Best of luck!

Posts: 8228 | Registered: Dec 2010
norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!


Ain't gonna lie, that lunch sounds yummy.

The boards...well, not so much, but go get em!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4232 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending tons of mojo! I'd continue in the morning as well, but you'll probably be done by the time I wake up.

You're gonna kill it. All the experience you've gained answering SI members' questions has to count for something too.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Posts: 18670 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Violated
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Member # 21239
Default  Posted: 3:36 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo mojo mojo !!! Lunch does sound good


Divorced 10/2013

Posts: 570 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 4:40 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some kick-a$$ test-taking mojo is on its way, pj4. Your lunch sounds like just the ticket for a stressful day.

Good luck!


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 3904 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you mojo, but I have every confidence you will ace it!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6717 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOJO PJ, remember the answers to the questions are what they want to hear, not what we do in real life.

You are awesome, and do great work. You will be fine.

((((and strength, and MOJO)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8888 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can do it. You'll be in my thoughts.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7862 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots and lots of mojo your way!


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

remember the answers to the questions are what they want to hear, not what we do in real life.

amen


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1758 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
purplejacket4
♀ 34262
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sitting in car eating sandwhich. 1/2 done. I either know it or I don't.

I remember in the olden days we got to go to a fancy hotel and sit in a beautiful ball room and take it with pencil and paper.

This: I get searched and have to turn my pockets inside out.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2354 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck to you both. I don't understand the purpose of the security check. Is cheating that much of a problem or us the test in the secured area of an airport?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3516 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DONE!!!!!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2354 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whew!! When do you hear results?


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Posts: 18670 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10744 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY for being done! I hope your results are perfect!

And YUM to the cheetos.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6962 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I took boards in the paper and pencil days. If you went to the bathroom a monitor went with you


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1758 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo hoo!


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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