Well today I just saw that he created a facebook page and made references to how nurses do it better and how he only dates other mens girlfriends. I also saw what he look like for the first time and he looks like something out of the walking dead, bald and ugly. The reason I saw this is that her niece is related to his cousin so they are friends and we see his post. For some reason I actually got sick thinking that was who she claimed she was so in love with and ready to leave me for. He never had a facebook page before and just created it april 4th. That was a few weeks after we changed her phone number. I'm assuming he tried to call it and got the no longer in use message. He hasn't tried to contact her since making the page, but his post seem directed at us. As soon as I told my wife, she told me to deactivate her account. She wants nothing to do with him. While I am freaking out mostly because of how low she sunk with that POS, she wants nothing to do with it, doesn't care what he posted and just wants off of facebook. She said if he is on there, she's gone. SHe never really used it anyway.
So we are both off facebook and she just doesn't even want to talk about it. I told her it seems as if he wants her to see things and she jsut doesn't care. she just wanted off. She doesn't even want to discuss it saying she doesn't care what he post or what he does, she is done with him and I should not care either.
Should I just drop it and why does it bother me so much. It just seems like a slap in the face to me especially that comment about only dating other guys girlfriends. I told her that and she said he's a scum and she doesn't care what he does as long as he leaves her alone.
Why does it feel I fell back to step one when we were doing so well.
[This message edited by 99lawdog99 at 12:35 PM, April 21st (Monday)]
Now is the time to concentrate on you and what you want. As long as you are giving him space in your head you are giving him the power. Take that power away, he is nothing to you. Spend that time on healing yourself.
Best of luck and (((hugs)))
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
[This message edited by 99lawdog99 at 1:06 PM, April 21st (Monday)]
My WH went for a lady that was 12 years older than me, not very intelligent, white trash, and badly dyed blond hair.
Not that I am a supermodel...but seriously WTF?!
Anyway, it seems clear to me that since he couldn't call her anymore, he had to go on facebook becaue he knew she was on there. I think it sent him a good message that she deactivated her account once she knew he was there. It was obvious he was hoping she would see it and react as she is a nurse and he posted a picture of a guy wearing a shirt that said "Nurses' do it better" and he added the comment, " the shirt says it all." The day I find out I have only so long to live is the day I will deal with everything. Thanks again