If your H remains in contact with AP then he is not committed to R.
I realize they didn't technically have an affair again
Maybe not but do you know if he is engaged in an EA with the AP?
Did he ever send the AP a NC letter? If not he should.
Remain super vigilant and watch his every move.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
[This message edited by Hurtandhealer at 9:34 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday)]
He needs to read, "Not Just Friends".
[This message edited by steadfast1973 at 9:54 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday)]
And he lied. He thought that it was OK to emotionally engage with the OW, the same person who tried to help him kill your marriage. He "picked" contacting her with keeping your marriage and your mental health sound. And he doesn't see that was a problem?
He chose her over you, bottom line. He showed by his actions that "just chatting" with a co-murderer was far, far more important than you, his wife.
Oh yes, it feels like another DDay because it is. Believe his actions
D-Day, June 10, 2012