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I have been really trying to heal from all of this. What a mess it had become. We started MC and it was the best thing we could have done. I finally feel that we are actually in R. I have been trying to train my mind to NOT think about the OW and I have been doing pretty good. Maybe two mornings this past week I have awoke to the thoughts, but it was every morning for quite a few months. In 2011, my H asked me for a D. He had previous contact with OW and they were very heavily involved in an EA. I got revengeful and started talking to her BF, and to a few mutual friends of mine and H. This is why he claims he wanted a D. Part of healing as we all know is hearing (learning) the truth. So the OW ends up pregnant with her BFs child (thank GOD) that same summer as my H is planning his new life with her, and of course things slow down and he comes home one day a few months later and says "do you still love me?" blah, blah..flash to today. The OW and her BF are in a custody battle, not even together, and she kidnapped her own child and skipped states. I am not focusing my energy on her, in fact, someone told me voluntarily. But I find it grand in the scheme of things, that she tried to steal my spouse (yes, hes also at fault), and my family from me. And now she may lose hers..karma, sweet karma.

I hope every day for karma to hit the OW. Every...single....day.

That is my mantra on bad days:

Karma is a b*tch, and she's on my side.