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Feedback on his NC letter please

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Jls0320 posted 4/22/2014 13:52 PM

Met with WH's counselor today and she agreed that he needs to let his EA partner know that no contact should be made. He was moved from her location 2 mos ago but yet she called him last wk trying to stir stuff up. This is what we have thus far, it will be sent via text.

"I was asked to be transferred out of your store 2 mos ago as you know. I am committed to my wife and making our marriage a priority. From this point on all contact from you should stop and is considered unnecessary."

Ok? Short and to the point

phoenix2015 posted 4/22/2014 14:10 PM

How about a statement that what they did was wrong and selfish and should never have happen. A statement about how much he loves you and how lucky he is that you are still willing to be with him should go a long way too!
Sending prayers your way...

Jls0320 posted 4/22/2014 14:19 PM

I like it thanks!

standingonmarble posted 4/22/2014 16:54 PM

From this point on, any further contact will be referred to my lawyer for harassment charges against you.

Be sure to let her know that it needs to end and if she continues there will be swift legal consequences.


Then be sure to change all emails, numbers, any and all ways to contact him.

I didn't get this, so consider yourself lucky that it is happening.

sisoon posted 4/22/2014 17:00 PM

From this point on, any further contact will be referred to my lawyer for harassment charges against you.

Brilliant, but I'd expand it slightly:

This is the last time I will contact you. Please do not attempt to contact me in the future. From this point on, any further contact from you will be referred to my lawyer for harassment charges against you.

If there has to be business contact, the letter should allow for it.

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