I don't know what even is a reasonable request these days.
Over Easter, I was telling my brother in law that due to fWH's new work schedule (7 days on and 7 days off), wFH can watch the kids this summer every other week. It will save us at least $600/month in daycare. My brother in law said that doesn't sound nice or fair. Then wFH won't have any days off on his own. I wanted to scream that that is when wFH had the opportunity to have his affair in the first place.
I have enough vacation time to take off probably every Friday so we can go camping as a family. He will also go golfing one evening on his week off also. So fWH will get some free time also.
One part of me wishes I would have been "meaner" earlier. fWH has always had at least 1 day off during the week without kids. I always work M-F so I have never got the day off by myself.